Sending a message to multiple friends

topic posted Fri, September 22, 2006 - 2:03 AM by  SKeye
I know I'm not the only one with this idea, is it possible to do? :)

Choosing not just "a recipient", but a few at a time.
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SKeye
California
  • Re: Sending a message to multiple friends

    Fri, September 22, 2006 - 12:42 PM
    I want this feature! It is very cumbersome to PM more than one person at a time. I don't even care if the other folks actually show up on a cc list or anything. I just want the ability to send a simple PM to several folks without having to create a listing. Further, this gets into the issue of improving the friends views interface. Why can't we see all our friends on one page? Combine those two features and you'll have a winner...er, except for the people with 1,000 friends that put a load on the server. Maybe those folks should get pre-caches when they log in or something. Doh! Another FR!
    • Re: Sending a message to multiple friends

      Fri, September 22, 2006 - 12:47 PM
      Well, sure, "too many friends" is the problem with both issues. 8)

      Creating a listing, e-mailing it to a bunch of people, and then deleting the listing does exactly what's being asked for -- the only difference is that there is an extra step of deleting the listing.

      This is a peculiar definition of "cumbersome".
      • Re: Sending a message to multiple friends

        Fri, September 22, 2006 - 1:14 PM
        Discussion:

        The current PM system only permits mail to friends. Therefore, there cannot be valid, "active" cc lists. I don't mind that at all. In fact, all I'd want is for each person who recieved a PM to be able to just respond to me. There could be an "inactive", text only, mention of who recieved the PM as an option. And this sure beats having to create a tribe to have a topical discussion that is only temporary in nature.

        Note that I've tried "the listing method" before and it sucks. In the end, you still have to read and collate things. I've also suspected that some folks have used events with RSVPs to substitute for multiple friends PMs...it seems to me that the architecture should permit (and if it doesn't, it should be rearchitected) multiple friend recipients to a single PM. There is nothing all that difficult about it...uh, except maybe the database strucure for how that would work. But, and I'm guessing here, that all one would have to do is set up a spooler routine to send the message out. Of course, the bandwidth for huge number of people doing this might be enormous unless the message was only stored in one place and referenced by user IDs. Maybe that would work...
      • Re: Sending a message to multiple friends

        Fri, September 22, 2006 - 2:50 PM
        "This is a peculiar definition of "cumbersome"."

        On the other hand, it does provide a nice filter -- folks that are confounded by the additional step of deleting a listing (which, frankly, isn't even necessary), won't be spamming their friends lists.
        • Re: Sending a message to multiple friends

          Sun, September 24, 2006 - 12:54 PM
          If you don't want someone to send you "spam" you can either drop them as a tribe friend if they will not honor your request to exclude you from their (theoretical) mass-mailings. Of course, if you want to remain friends with someone who doesn't respect your privacy in this regard, that would be up to you. The technology is supposedly being done to foment communication, not limit it. A workaround does not make communication efficient at all. You may want inefficient communication options but, for me, it's a waste of time to have to create a listing or configure a tribe just to talk to five people at the same time about some issue du jour.
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            Re: Sending a message to multiple friends

            Sun, September 24, 2006 - 1:05 PM
            """ If you don't want someone to send you "spam". """

            And if want spam?

            How about a checkbox with the caption. "All i want is spam" (and some ads). I know, "Cram some spam, Sam" should be a suitable caption for that checkbox.

            :P
            • Bad troll alt?

              Sun, September 24, 2006 - 4:56 PM
              "Maxim"--has no friends but feels like it is important for us to hear opinions in a thread about sending messages to multiple friends...
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                Re: Bad troll alt?

                Sun, September 24, 2006 - 10:25 PM
                Bad troll alt? (never heard of bad trollalts, just of trolls or alts. Maybe there is trollalts. Hi pal, i'm a trollalt, an alternative troll.

                My next question was.....

                Can i send multible messages to 0 friends?

                (with the follow up question)

                Or, must i get some friends first?
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    Re: Sending a message to multiple friends

    Sun, September 24, 2006 - 6:55 PM
    I have wanted this too. There were a few times I would like to have been able to "select all", but I don't have very many friends. It would be terrible to have many friends, and have all those friends also "selecting all" to end up with a glut of thousands of emails a day. Yikes!

    There are people that find it necessary to forward mail all the time, I'm thinking AOL and the Urban Legend stuff. I can't make them look it up before sending, so I end up doing a "reply all" and sending back the correct information. Having the original mailer get mad at me for making them look like a fool. To which I reply, "We've been through this before, look it up yourself, or expect a reply all with the actual facts". Grrrr.

    I would like a way to multi-sort friends, that could be used as "mailing categories". There are "fun" friends. There are "support forum" friends. Sometimes those categories overlap.

    Tribe.net has enormous potential. I'm thinking of extended families. Cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents, grandkids, nieces, nephews. Trying to communicate to that vast network of family (and friends) is problematic, when what you want to say is that you've just had a healthy baby girl and boy twins and you really want someone to pitch in changing diapers. LOL!

    High school or college people keeping in contact after graduation, or during summer break from college. The kind of networking that can keep people in contact, and perhaps provide employment networking for those people, through their friends.

    Since what can be used for good can be distorted for evil, such as spamming, it would be nice to have an "opt-out" of mass mailings from any particular person. So that "friend" who is fun on a tribe is an annoyance via mass-mail PMs, opt-out when one comes in that has NOTHING to do with anything I am interested in. Because sometimes a polite (or not so polite) "don't send me this crap" doesn't work.

    It would only opt-out on multi-mailings, not on direct mail. If I get spammy direct mail, they get dumped off the friend's list.

    Would any of this work? Pros, cons, comments welcome.
    • Re: Sending a message to multiple friends

      Sun, September 24, 2006 - 6:57 PM
      This is why I would use a listing sometimes, if I were just, say, announcing something to some or all of my friends.

      If I was going to talk about baby planning stuff, then I would simply make a tribe and invite the family to join it.
  • Re: Sending a message to multiple friends

    Mon, November 6, 2006 - 7:34 AM
    I'd like to throw my support behind the suggestion that sending messages to multiple recipients shoud be available. The current limitation forces me to use off-tribe e-mail addresses to send messages to selected individuals, even when in response to a Tribe-related discussion. I don't understand Edward's suggestion that I can use a "listing" for the same purpose. I haven't successfully limited the audience of a listing to a select list of friends. So, it may be possible, but not at all obvious to the casual, non-computer geek Tribe member. Every other e-mail client on the planet simply offers either a second adressee line labeled cc: or something similar, and/or the ability to enter multiple adressees separated by commas or semicolons. To me, a non programmer, it seems that this should be a relatively simple improvement, and its need is so obvious I am bewildered that it doesn't already exist. Why not a button labeled something like "add additional [addressee/recipient/etc.]" which would open a window of friends' icons??
    • Re: Sending a message to multiple friends

      Mon, November 6, 2006 - 8:48 AM
      "I don't understand Edward's suggestion that I can use a "listing" for the same purpose. I haven't successfully limited the audience of a listing to a select list of friends."

      If you want to make an announcement to a lot of people, you post a listing. You DON'T post it to any tribes, but you DO add a bunch of friends to it.

      It's on the second window of the posting. It's a button. It'll say "Add friends". When you click the button, you are offered the opportunity to send that listing to all of your friends, to anyone you click, or to none of your friends. In one click, you can send some vital announcement to every friend on your list.

      If you don't select a tribe, then voila -- you've just sent an tribe-mail to a lot of people. (well, assuming you finish the process).

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